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Old 06-02-2006, 02:10 PM   #11
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Its all personal, I think. I cant imagine not having children (my girlfriends and i talk about it alot, and if we were financially stable, we'd be pregnant right now lol), but I know some people cant imagine having children. I often feel bad when I hear about someone growing old with no children, but they may not have wanted any, so they could be perfectly content.
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Old 06-02-2006, 07:21 PM   #12
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In a world with a population exceeding six billion, I don't think anyone's going to notice if a few people don't have children.

Although, I do think that it's a nice idea to have at least one per couple. You know, just to keep the family going.
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Old 06-03-2006, 12:00 AM   #13
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I can see it not happening to me for several reasons and I guess I feel its sad and whatnot but I guess I hope one day it will happen.
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In a world with a population exceeding six billion, I don't think anyone's going to notice if a few people don't have children.

Although, I do think that it's a nice idea to have at least one per couple. You know, just to keep the family going.
lol, you'll have to turn straight to live up to those words.

Make no mistake about it though. The number of people refusing to have children grows each year. We're not talking about a few people not having children, we're talking about a decrease in population growth rate on a world wide scale. A decrease that can already be expressed in whole percentages.

There are a lot of reasons why this decrease is happening. One of those reasons is that more and more people come from broken homes. They promise themselves never to do that to their own children, and then discover that they don't have control over that. Along with the fact that products especially designed for babies and children, as well as education and such get more and more expensive as years go by. People have to work double jobs to cover the expenses, which leads to mommy and daddy growing apart, and children spending more time with strangers from Childcare or grandma and grandpa than they do with their own parents.

As a result we see divorce rate growing every year. A huge chunk of that group has children running around not being able to deal with the circumstances and under the flag of 'my parents have no time for me' end up seeking refuge in street gangs where taking care of eachother is priority number one. Other kids get sent around the family to spend a few years here, then a few years there and ultimately become an unstable pawn in society for lack of a stable foundation that should have been put there by their parents at a young age.

The evolution of the human race is a pattern that keeps repeating itself. It starts with a huge group of spermcells happily on their way to life, most of them die off and only one or two, sometimes three make it to destiny. Globally a huge group of children is then happily sent out on their way to heaven and only a few make it through alright.

But what they do on the other side of the world is not our business. We don't have to care about this planet cause we're not on it that long for one, and in that short time the chance of making a difference is decreasing because unity is currently being sucked out of society. We all know is that the world is on it's way to doomsday, but we'll never live to see that cause that's still generations away. So eventually our purpose is to see what to do with our lives. Do we want our children to grow up in a world like this, yes or no? That's a question that can't just be answered in a minute or two. So most people don't look that far into the future. "It's nice to have kids, so why not?" "Sure thing yay!" Or "we don't have the money right now, dear". Or, "the biggest sin in life is life itself". All options are alright choices. Don't ever let anybody tell you otherwise.
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Old 06-03-2006, 07:09 AM   #14
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Well It probably wont happen to me for health reasons. I guess all I really have ever wanted was a baby. I am adopted and the only way I can adopt is to look into a foreign adoption and its hard to do from here. Noone puts their children up for adoption here.
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lol, you'll have to turn straight to live up to those words.
LOL. Trust me, I've agonized over the whole topic of having children myself. It's the one major disadvantage to my sexuality.
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Old 06-03-2006, 03:16 PM   #16
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I don't know I've never felt maternal at all ever even when my sister had 2 children did I ever think "Aww one day I want that". The idea of kids doesnt sit with me. I don't want to look after something 24/7 the rest of my life.

I can quite happily live my life without having children and die childless.
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Old 06-03-2006, 03:44 PM   #17
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Some people sh ouldn't become parents...some should...it is sick (in my opinion) when people base their ENTIRE life around their kids...all they can talk about is their kids..I do understand it, but it's not healthy....when the kids leave you'll have nothing else. I'm all ABOUT having a career/balancing that and child raising.
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Old 06-03-2006, 03:53 PM   #18
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lol, you'll have to turn straight to live up to those words.
A) You cant 'turn straight' love. :P B) Sexuality doesnt stand in the way. There are many ways for one to have a child.
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There are many ways for one to have a child.
Indeed. But unfortunately, there is no way to have a child that biologically belongs to both members of a gay or lesbian couple.
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Old 06-03-2006, 10:20 PM   #20
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Indeed. But unfortunately, there is no way to have a child that biologically belongs to both members of a gay or lesbian couple.
No, I know. If its a gay couple, both men put sperm in and it gets mixed around and whos ever 'takes' thats who the biological father is. You can tell them you dont wan to know, so then both can kind of say they are. I watched Rosie's documentry (about her cruise) and there was a couple that did that, it was sweet. You could tell by looking at the kid who was the bio father, but they both just either pretended they didnt know, or really just didnt know.

Actually, I guess the same thing can be done with eggs, and then they can be implanted to one of the women of a lesbian couple, so you still wouldnt have to know.
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