Thank you BFM staff and members! | | I haven't been able to get online in months as we've had computer problems and i've just been checking threads and came across the thread made by scooby for a candle lighting day for De's 21st. It made me so happy to know people here thought of her on the day.
Dejonays 21st was a mixture of emotions, it was a day where we grieved at the fact that the day was supposed to be one of the milestones in our lives that we look forward to that she would never be able to celebrate. But it was also a day where we sat back and thought of happy moments of which we managed to share with this amazing woman. And so we drank our drinks and laid out flowers outside her bedroom door and lit candles for her and played her favourite songs.
Jenni-Mai has grown amazingly, its hard to believe that in two months time she will be a year old. She's inherited De's cheeky smile, and was quite happy to clap away to the music. November 23rd will be her 1st birthday, a day for us to celebrate her coming into the world but also a day we shall be grieving Dejonay leaving our world.
Again, i'd like to thank everyone for remembering De on the day she would of turned 21, its comforting to know there's so much support in this forum.
Tyinna
~x~x~
__________________ UPDATE ON JENNI-MAI: Jenni is now living with her father Joel (also a member on this board) she is now 5 months old and is gettin to the stage where shes on the move! Her first word was dada and when she wont shut up all we have to do is put on J-Lo ~ Jenny from the block!
Much love to my Dejonay. ~xx~ |