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Originally posted by Stinger
That's a fact yeah. It's also not like every other soul I encounter automatically gets the blame too, that would be a very blind thing to do. It gets harder when you don't get to see anything else but that small percentage of society. But I agree that inspite of all that, you should never give up on people. |
Well that's good to hear you do agree on that, was a bit worried there! It is hard, but most people are basically good, if at times a bit stupid.
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Originally posted by Stinger
Hehe, still you're very right. Because of the fact that you can't just blame the other person, I always went and put the blame on myself. I found out that that's not the right way either. So now I just analize the situation, and see who deserves to be blamed for doing what. Mostly I put a bit of the blame here and a bit of the blame there. But the funny thing is, in the end.. it doesn't even matter. |
Yeah that's a much better way of assigning 'blame'... it does matter to a degree though I think. Eventually you do get over it yeah, but to move on I think you really need to understand why the other person/yourself did what they did, so it can be avoided in future, and to stop yourself from going insane.