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Originally posted by Chewie
Hmmm well you can put the fault on the person(s) who betrayed your trust, but realize that's only a very small percentage of society, and that not everyone is like that. |
That's a fact yeah. It's also not like every other soul I encounter automatically gets the blame too, that would be a very blind thing to do. It gets harder when you don't get to see anything else but that small percentage of society. But I agree that inspite of all that, you should never give up on people.
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Originally posted by Chewie
Sometimes you do have to take responsibility yourself though, you can't just blame the other person, else you'll make the same problems again. I'm really not the person to be asking though because I can say this advice but I never follow it hehe. |
Hehe, still you're very right. Because of the fact that you can't just blame the other person, I always went and put the blame on myself. I found out that that's not the right way either. So now I just analize the situation, and see who deserves to be blamed for doing what. Mostly I put a bit of the blame here and a bit of the blame there. But the funny thing is, in the end.. it doesn't even matter.