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Originally Posted by ForeverInLoveWithJus Jess, I have put up with the effects of alcohol. My Mum is a severe alcoholic and when I moved out of home, It was like a big weight being lifted off my head. I love my mum but I cant live with her anymore. The hidden bottles, the sight of her slurring her words, falling, dislocating parts of her body. I just cant deal with it anymore. I have tried to help her but she doesnt want help because according to her.. she doesnt have a problem.
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So everybody is automatically like your mom then? "I lose all respect for someone when they do that." Blame the world because of one single person? That's not nice, heh.
Not all alcoholics are the same, and not all drug users are the same. Have you tried MY method on your mom yet? The not-so-nice way? Or have you just given up on her? Cause let me tell you. With drug and alcohol addicts, the nice ways never work. My methods WORKED though. These people are forever thankful. Your methods clearly didn't. And you have given up on your own mother. And you sit there and judge me? You sit there and you judge all sorts of people you don't even know? "I lose all respect" is quite a statement. That deserves a 'wow' in capital letters. I don't know if there's anything worse you can say to a person who is in pain.
Maybe instead of judging them, and judging me and my methods, perhaps you should concentrate more on actually getting the damn job done. Your own mother heh. If you can't help her, then wouldn't you do anything in your power to get someone else to her who CAN help her? You freakin ran away! I even remember giving you FRIENDLY tips on how to go about it in some thread some time ago. Ever tried them out yet? Did they work? Ever attempted to get more advice from Stinger to help your mom? Are you really done yet?
Or would you perhaps rather help Ashleigh? The less serious problem of the two. The one who isn't your family. The one on some freakin forum.
Am I putting things in perspective for you yet, or am I talking to a wall?