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Originally Posted by Lea I don't understand why this only relates to females. Why is it ok for men to reveal skin or be naked or have there tops of but for women to reveal skin is wrong? |
I guess that is because in history man had control over women and could tell them what to do. You still see that with some women with a certain religion. They have to be all covered up cuz the man is afraid her body will make other man want that woman too. And sometimes the woman choses for that type of clothing herself, but I think being in that religion it kinda forces people too. But I could be wrong, it's just how I see it.
Anyway, I do think some women are showing off too much skin. But it's not always the amount of skin, it's the way they dress themselves. I wear tops and skirts, but I make sure I don't look trashy or show the 'i know im hot and want man to stare at my breasts and/or behind because i want all the attention' look. I don't like my breasts hanging almost out of my top and I don't like super short skirts where I don't even have to bend cuz people can see too much already when im just stading straight up.
I do not like it because I think it's selling the body. Some man DO see woman as objects and I do not want to be seen as 'that woman with this or that type of body' I want to been seen as a whole, not only the outside. And I've been in situations guys didn't even care about me personally and as soon as I notice that, I point them the door. And if some women do wanna be seen that way, or do not care, then that's ok with me. Im just not like that.