That's really interesting Stinger, but I don't think that could work with how I feel about my mother, there's been so much done/said for soo many years I can write a book about it all, she's done alot of damage, alot. I don't see forgiveness in sight.
I think it depends on how extreme things were with a parent to be able to forgive just like that. I always hear it's good to forgive(good for yourself) but the thought of it just doesn't seem possible, I don't know. I'm not even living with or near her for more that 8 years now, havn't seen her since either. |